What Do You Have To Lose™
Natural Approach to Weight Issues

June, 2003

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Natural Weight Loss is a free newsletter that addresses the physical, mental/emotional, and spiritual aspects of weight issues. It's my goal to shift your attention from dieting and  struggling with food and weight, to balanced health, harmony, and joyful living. Balanced weight is a natural outflow.

Studies show that more than half of U.S. adults are overweight, and Americans spend $33 billion annually on weight loss products and services. Have you ever considered the possibility that we’re looking in the wrong direction for solutions to the growing weight problems of this country? Weight issues are health issues and should be addressed as such.

Excess weight is one way that our body communicates to us that something is out of balance. Instead of looking for the message behind the issue, most people take a superficial approach; i.e., “going on a diet”. Reducing food intake, taking drugs, starving oneself, or going on a “fad” diet will never bring long-term results. You may lose some weight, but you can have so much more with our “Whole Health” approach – radiant health, passionate living, abundance, loving relationships, and joy and fulfillment from life. Balanced health includes all of these factors. Often it is the lack of these things that contributes to weight problems.

Natural Weight Loss provides information, articles, tips and resources to get you back to your center—the place where a slimmer, healthier you is just waiting to emerge. The foundation of my approach is Holistic. Because our bodies are affected by a variety of factors, internal and external, this e-zine offers suggestions for our many aspects.

 

I'm very excited about my upcoming 6-Session Natural Weight Loss™  TeleSeminar beginning Monday, July 7, at 7 p.m. est.  A TeleSeminar allows you to learn from the comfort of your own home, or from anywhere that there is a phone available.  A TeleSeminar is a conference call, like a chat line, and includes discussion, some lecture, some questions.  TeleSeminars are highly interactive and the 'flow' works well. You can listen and absorb and/or engage in the discussion. You can always ask questions of the TeleClass Leader.

This workshop will show you that a slender, healthy, attractive body is your natural state. It’s more difficult to be overweight than slender.   Weight issues are health issues, and indicate an imbalance in body/mind/emotion/spirit.  If you’re looking for a strategy to bring you radiant health and easy weight loss, harmonious emotions, and a clear, focused, and positive mind, this class is for you.  Excess weight has many gifts for you; the sooner you discover them, the more quickly you’ll lose the weight.

The only comprehensive program of its kind, the ideas are holistic in nature, and  based on 23 years clinical experience and training in Traditional Chinese Medicine, Attitudinal Healing, Yoga and Spiritual Development.  This class is facilitated by Deborah Barr, a professional who has spent over 23 years counseling and coaching those with health, weight and lifestyle challenges.

For TeleSeminar details and registration, click here.

THE JOY OF EATING

It’s a rare occurrence to find someone who eats joyfully.  Eating joyfully means having a hearty appetite—an appetite for foods that are calming and energizing, that help focus the mind, are easy to digest, and have pleasing tastes.  It means savoring the flavors and textures while engaging all of our senses, and chewing thoroughly in order to enjoy every last morsel.  Joyful eating means receiving and eating our meals in the spirit of gratitude for nature, the farmers, the food distributors, the retailers, the cook, and for ourselves.  The first stage of eating begins in the mind.  Our attitude towards food determines its effect on our bodies

Most importantly, joyful eating means no guilt, no fear, and no food phobias.  Many people worry about and fear food constantly.  These toxic emotional and mental states have far greater impact on the effects of the food than the ingredients themselves.  The food we prepare and eat receives our energy and our consciousness, then returns it to us.  Hence, we become what is most like our thoughts, and often, that's overweight.

Drop the Labels

Have you noticed the language we use when referring to our weight imbalances—“fight the fat”, “win the war on obesity”, “battle of the bulge”, “I’m watching my weight”.  Weight problems begin in our minds.  That’s right.    Whatever shape your body is in is a result of the thoughts, attitudes, and feelings you have about yourself and the food you consume.  Fighting and battling wars, whether internally or externally, always creates stagnation, discomfort, and more difficulties to fight against.  And those difficulties end up on our bodies.   Many believe the way to lose weight is to declare war on our bodies and fight the fat.  This creates a resistance to what we really want—a slender, healthy and attractive body.  Giving negative focus to any unwanted bodily condition (including excess fat) intensifies its hold on us. 

Our cells are thinking mechanisms that communicate with each other and respond to our thoughts.  Our attitudes penetrate our cells, and our bodies respond to our mind at a cellular level.  We become what is most like our thoughts.  So, if you're calling yourself fat and waging a war on your body, your body will respond by being fat and giving you more to fight against.

Relax and get in touch with the tastes, textures, and aromas of real food.  It’s not complex.

Food can help us actualize our dreams, and many are dreaming and fantasizing of a healthy, slender body.

Despite popular belief, there is no one way of eating that works for everyone, and there is no one way that works for you all of the time.  Popular fad diets are extreme and many are drawn to them because their personal condition is extreme.  Problem is when we continue with an extreme long enough we swing toward the opposite extreme, always craving, struggling, and never achieving equilibrium (and balanced weight).

As we move into warmer, damper weather, eating a lot of foods that create heat and dampness in the body will make it even more difficult to lose weight.  These foods include animal foods, cheese, and eggs.  Now's the time to lighten up with a good variety of many vegetables, especially dark leafy greens like romaine, kale, collard greens, watercress, mustard greens.  These and other bitter foods cool down heat conditions and dry dampness (which is almost always present with weight issues). 

Cooling pungents disperse fats from the body, stimulate metabolism and benefit digestion, all of which will help with weight loss.  These include, radishes, daikon, peppermint, celery, broccoli, turnips, marjoram, oregano, and white pepper.

Sour foods like lemon, lime, grapefruit, sour green apples, sour plums clear heat and counteract the effects of rich, greasy and high protein meats and cheeses.  Use small amounts regularly during the warm months.

A word of caution:  eating too many raw foods, fruits, and juice will eventually leave you weak, cold and craving high protein meats.   It's best to use whole grains (not processed carbohydrates) as foundational foods and these benefit everyone.  Then use easy to digest proteins, fruits and other foods as supplemental foods.  Doing so will eliminate the swings from one extreme in diet (and mood) to another.

I believe that dessert can and should be an occasional part of one's diet, if desired.  There are many healthy and tasty desserts.  So, I've included one in this e-zine--my Light Lemon Pie.

Why not savor the tart, sweet, refreshing flavors of this  Pie.  Click here for recipe.  This recipe uses no refined sugars, no wheat or dairy and nothing chemical or artificial. 

How You Eat Matters

What's your eating style?  Do you eat on the run?  While standing, walking around the house doing chores, working, driving the car, or talking on the phone?  Doing so will   inhibit digestion and assimilation and you will never be satisfied, always looking for more. 

Creating time to sit down, relax, chew and enjoy your meals enhances the positive effects of the food on your body.  You'll metabolize more efficiently, be more satisfied, and feel nourished physically, mentally and emotionally.  Giving thanks further adds to the positive impact as does taking 3-5 long, slow deep breathes before eating.  Create your own pleasant rituals around eating, and you'll discover it enhances overall wellbeing and helps with weight loss.

Many say they don't have time to sit down and eat. If that's the case, I'd say it's time to examine your priorities.  Eating is one of the most fundamental ways that we nourish ourselves.  Not allowing oneself to eat balanced foods in healthful ways is akin to making a statement of not caring or respecting oneself enough for this most basic necessity.

 

Stop Calling Yourself Names –" binge-eater", "food addict", "compulsive overeater", etc.  Each time you think and speak these labels about yourself you reinforce their power over you and your body.  Our bodies always obey the instructions of our mind, and if you’re calling yourself names you are keeping yourself in bondage.

Reality and thoughts are not separate.  Giving one’s attention to these negative labels enhances their effect on your body.  One of the most effective actions you can take toward losing unwanted pounds is to create some new labels that are positive, empowering, and make you feel joyful when you use them.  Think and speak them daily.

I encourage you to come up with some of your own.  In fact, why not send an email to health@wholehealthresources.com with your new labels (only positive ones) and we’ll publish them in the next issue.

 

The essence of our all-knowing spirit is joy and freedom.  Our spirit responds to and thrives on joy.  When we are experiencing joy, we are inspired (by spirit) to choices that will give us a healthy, slender, attractive body.  Thus, engaging in activities that make us feel light, happy, and joyful will ultimately lead to healthy weight.  Adopting a loving relationship and joyful attitude toward food brings mental/emotional lightness and a body you'll love.

Increasing joy on a daily basis is essential for weight loss.  Everything we need to be in a joyful state exists right now in our every day life.   Joy is a feeling; an energy of lightness, a knowing that life and everything in it is great.  For some, joy emerges when watching a sunset, taking a brisk walk in the beauty of autumn, during meditation, gardening, while observing or interacting with children or pets, When we’re in this state we don’t need food or alcohol or drugs to dull the hopeless feeling that comes with lack of joy.  Instead we use our daily meals as a way to increase our joy.

Our spirit thrives on healthy pleasures.  Whatever activity we are engaging in, including eating, can work for or against us.  A change in attitude will change everything.  Look for what's good and positive about ever choice you make and watch the pounds melt away.

 

"Four weeks into the  recommendations you gave to me for weight loss and I have benefited in so many ways....  I have steadily been losing weight without weighing or measuring food or limiting my food intake; the new foods make me feel happier, content, sure of my self, more motivated, and I have more endurance.  My skin has also improved, and mentally I feel much, much better.  Overall, everything has improved."  D.H. Philadelphia


Natural Weight Loss e-Course, allows learning at your own pace, in the convenience of your own home, any time of day or night. 
Designed for the busy lifestyle. For details, click here.    Eating Your Way To Success, a Live Class at Chautauqua Institution, Chautauqua, NY.  Click here for details.


If you haven’t done it on your own by now, perhaps you need some expert guidance. For over 23 years I have been helping clients achieve radiant health, weight loss, vital energy, a nourishing lifestyle and passionate living with my unique “whole person” approach.

My background is in Traditional Chinese Medicine which sees the body/mind/emotion/spirit as intimately connected, each aspect influencing the other. I am also a trained Facilitator in Attitudinal Healing.   Click here for complete bio.

I incorporate Dietary Therapy, Attitudinal Healing and often, herbal/supplement guidance, and other modalities. Programs are customized based on your health condition, constitutional strengths and weaknesses, age, and lifestyle. You will be guided  toward clarity in your thinking,  removing obstacles and making changes necessary to reach your goals.   You'll learn creative problem solving, and have accountability in an environment where you are fully listened to in a non-judgmental way.

FREE initial session (30-40 minutes) can be done by phone or in my Pittsburgh office. Offer expires,June 28 2003. Call 412.421.7760 or send an email to health@wholehealthresources.com  to schedule. CLICK HERE for additional coaching information.


My favorite green products are Vitamineral Greens and Spirulina.  These are organic and helpful for blood sugar imbalances, obesity, overeating; and building and enriching the blood  Click here for details and ordering.

 

 

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